For example, Kaku's QFT pp. 214-215:
Massive vector theory with non-Abelian group is non-renormalizable.
Massive vector Abelian theory is renormalizable.
I heard about the following arguments, but I don't find them satisfactory.
Someone will say the propagator of massive vector field is like $$ \frac{g_{\mu \nu} - k_{\mu} k_{\nu}/m^2}{k^2-m^2}. $$ In large $k$, it will not decay like $1/k^2$, so the power counting law breaks down. Certainly I admit that power counting law is violated, but why does a violation of power-counting have a relation with renormalizablity? And we already know that a massive $U(1)$ gauge field is still renormalizable even though it violates the power-counting.
Someone will say mass term $m^2 \operatorname{tr} A^\mu A_\mu$ will break gauge invariance. But why is gauge invariance important? Guage invariance is not a symmetry, and it's nothing but a redundancy to describe the true physical degrees of freedom. Any theory without gauge invariance can be rewritten by the Stückelberg trick as a gauge theory which describes the same physics.
For example, the massive Maxwell field $$\mathcal{L}= -\frac{1}{4}F^{\mu\nu}F_{\mu\nu}+\frac{1}{2}m^2 A^\mu A_\mu \tag{1}$$ under the replacement, $$A_\mu\rightarrow A_\mu +\partial_\mu \phi \tag{2}$$ becomes $$\mathcal{L}= -\frac{1}{4}F^{\mu\nu}F_{\mu\nu}+\frac{1}{2}m^2 (A_\mu +\partial_\mu \phi)^2 \tag{3}$$
Now $(3)$ has local gauge invariance, $$\delta A_\mu =\partial _\mu \Lambda,\quad \delta \phi = -\Lambda \tag{4}$$
It's obvious that $(3)$ with local gauge invariance $(4)$ describes the same theory $(1)$.
Rescaling $\phi\rightarrow \frac{1}{m}\phi$, $$\mathcal{L}= -\frac{1}{4}F^{\mu\nu}F_{\mu\nu}+\frac{1}{2}m^2 A^\mu A_\mu + \frac{1}{2}\partial_\mu \phi \partial ^\mu \phi +m A_\mu \partial^\mu \phi\tag{5}$$ with local gauge invariance, $$\delta A_\mu = \partial_\mu \Lambda,\quad \delta \phi = -m \Lambda \tag{6}$$
By the same way, any theory without gauge invariance, like massive non-abelian gauge field, can be rewritten as a gauge theory. So why is there a relation between gauge invariance and renormalizablity?
So it seems that the above two handwaving arguments are untenable. In general how to prove that massive abelian gauge theory is renormalizable but massive non-abelian gauge theory non-renormalizable?