In Newtonian mechanics the equation you use to describe the trajectory of the falling particle is the usual $F = ma$. In General Relativity you shouldn't be surprised that you use a more sophisticated equation that gives the Newtonian equation as the low curvature limit. This equation is called the geodesic equation:
$$ \frac{d^2x^\gamma}{dq^2} + \Gamma^\gamma_{\mu\nu} \frac{dx^\mu}{dq} \frac{dx^\nu}{dq} = 0 $$
The variable $q$ parametrises the trajectory - it's proportional to the proper time i.e. the time measured by the falling particle. The equation gives you $t(q)$, $r(q)$, $\theta(q)$ and $\phi(q)$ in whatever coordinate system you wish to work in.
You can calculate the EOM of the falling particle then invent a fictional force that is a function of distance to make Newton's equation work, but this would be an intellectual exercise only and wouldn't have any physical significance.
If you're interested, Phil's answer to What is the weight equation through general relativity? analyses a similar problem.
Later:
Re your comment to Stan's answer, there's nothing physically opposing the motion of the falling body. What you're seeing is analogous to the length contraction and time dilation you get in special relativity. The radial coordinate $r$ is defined as the circumference of a circle drawn round the black hole divided by $2\pi$. It is not the same as the length you'd measure if you let down a tape measure towards the event horizon. So you shouldn't be surprised that the speed you get by dividing $dr$ by $dt$ turns out a bit odd.
To see this look at this diagram:

The $dr$ you're using to calculate the speed is the distance on the flat plane, and it's immediately obvious that this isn't the same as the proper distance, $ds$, you get by integrating $dr$ along the trajectory. You can calculate the proper distance simply by holding the other parameters constant and integrating the metric:
$$ \int ds = \int_{r_1}^{r_2} \frac{dr}{\sqrt{1 - r_s/r}} $$
As $r_2 \rightarrow r_s$ this integral goes to infinity. So your result is that the falling body takes an infinite time to move an infinite distance.
But this doesn't mean that the distance to the event horizon is infinite any more than it means time stops there. All it means is that $r$ and $t$ are not the simple quantities that we dwellers in low curvature spacetime think they are.