First and foremost, draw the spacetime diagram.
In the reference frame of the flash bulb, the other two clocks are always synchronized since those clocks have, at all times, the same speed as each other.
If you trace the wordline of the two accelerated clocks (in the frame of the flash-bulb), you'll find they are congruent and so, the proper time along the worldlines is the same.
Also (and again, this is plain to see on a spacetime diagram), while it is true that each moving clock observes the other to be running slow, there is also a time offset that is just such that the two clocks will read the same when they meet at the center.
This is easiest to see in the case that the acceleration to $0.4 c$ is instantaneous.
Before the acceleration, the clocks are in the same reference frame and are synchronized.
The moment after the acceleration, the clocks are in different reference frames and each clock observes the other to be ahead in time, i.e., to read a later time.
Thus, even though each clock observes the other to run slowly, there will be a time when each clock observes the other to read the same time as it reads and, not coincidentally, that moment will occur precisely when the clocks meet at the flash bulb.
Therefore we must conclude that any time dilation observed during
their passage is nothing other than an illusion,
Actually, no. When the two moving clocks meet, they both read the same time but both are behind the flash bulb's clock, i.e., the moving clocks show less elapsed time than the flash bulb's clock.
Added: the spacetime diagram
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So you are saying that each clock sees a value of time ahead of the
transmitted signal.
No, that's not what I'm saying. I assume you're unfamiliar with spacetime diagrams and lines of simultaneity. When I say "each clock observes the other to be ahead in time", I mean "observe" as it understood in the context of Special Relativity. From the Wikipedia article "Observer (Special Relativity)":
Physicists use the term "observer" as shorthand for a specific
reference frame from which a set of objects or events is being
measured. Speaking of an observer in special relativity is not
specifically hypothesizing an individual person who is experiencing
events, but rather it is a particular mathematical context which
objects and events are to be evaluated from.
This distinction between observer and the observer's "apparatus" like
coordinate systems, measurement tools etc. was dropped by many later
writers, and today it is common to find the term "observer" used to
imply an observer's associated coordinate system (usually assumed to
be a coordinate lattice constructed from an orthonormal right-handed
set of spacelike vectors perpendicular to a timelike vector...
In the spacetime diagram above, I drew the x axis for the flash bulb reference frames as well as the two clocks the moment after the acceleration. Recall that, all events along the x axis have time coordinate zero in their respective reference frames.
Thus, it is easy to see that, in A's reference frame (coordinate system), clock B reads a positive value simultaneous with clock A reading $0$.