In Georgi's book (page 143), he calculates the tensor components of $3\otimes 8$ under the $\mathrm{SU(3)}$ explicitly using tensor components. Namely; $u^{i}$ (a $3$) times $v^{j}_k$ (an $8$, meaning that it is also traceless, $v^j_j =0$), equal $$ \dfrac{1}{2}\left(u^{i}v^{j}_{k}+u^{j}v^{i}_{k} - \dfrac{1}{4}\delta^{i}_{k}u^{l}v^{j}_{l} - \dfrac{1}{4}\delta^{j}_{k}u^{l}v^{i}_{l} \right) + \dfrac{1}{4}\epsilon^{ijl}\left(\epsilon_{lmn}u^m v^{n}_{k} + \epsilon_{kmn}u^m v^{n}_{l}\right) +\dfrac{1}{8}\left(3\delta^{i}_{k}u^l v^{j}_{l} - \delta^{j}_{k}u^{l}v^{i}_{l} \right). $$
I understand that initially (the first term in the above equation) he symmetrizes with respect to the two upper indices while at the same time he subtracts the traces. In the second term above, I can see that he lowers two indices with the invariant $\epsilon_{lmn}$ but I don't understand why he then symmetrizes! ($\epsilon_{lmn}u^m v^{n}_k \propto A_{lk}$ and he symmetrizes $A_{lk}$). While at the last term he adds the traces he subtraced with a spurious 3 and signs I don't understand how he got.
Can someone elaborate on how exactly one can generally decompose tensor products into irreducible parts? Is there a connection with the Young Tableaux? With the Young tableaux one can easily conclude that $3\otimes 8 = 15 \oplus \bar{6} \oplus 3$, however how does one translate the Young tableaux into tensor components to get the above expression?
Thanks in advance.