Let's look at the forces in nature, there are four of them as far as we know (note that I am not very precise in the numbers I give, but for the comparison I make this is enough):
- the strong force is very strong, it's coupling constant (which is a measure for its strength) is about 0.1
- the weak force is not actually all that weak. It can be unified with
- electromagnetism, the force we know best. Together, the electroweak interactions have coupling constants on the order of 0.01, about 10 times less than the strong force.
Finally we have gravity, which has a coupling constant around
$$0.000 000 000 000 000 000 000 000 000 000 000 000 01 = 10^{-38}$$
For the other forces nature chose coupling values that are smaller than one, but still comparable. For gravity, the coupling constant is ridiculousely small (a magnet sticks to your fridge, even though the whole mass of earch pulls it down!).
There are attempts at explaining how this coupling constant got so small. Most notably, extra dimensions say that gravity, unlike the other forces can go into all spacetime dimensions and therefore just appears weak in our 4D perspective, while it is of similar strength to the other forces in the larger picture.