I am trying to derive the non-relativistic Lagrangian for a complex scalar field from taking the non-relativistic limit of the complex scalar field Lagrangian. I am following the steps in "QFT for the Gifted Amateur," section 12.3, which uses the mostly-minus metric convention.
They start out with the complex scalar field Lagrangian (with interaction term),
$$\mathcal{L} = \partial^{\mu}\psi^{\dagger}\partial_{\mu}\psi-m^2\psi^{\dagger}\psi -\lambda(\psi^{\dagger}\psi)^2\tag{1} $$
and take the non-relativistic limit,
$$\psi \rightarrow \frac{1}{\sqrt{2m}}e^{-imt}\Psi(\textbf{x},t),\tag{2}$$
and the corresponding adjoint expression and plug them into $\mathcal{L}$. The book first studied the time derivative part, and argues:
As in the last example, the guts of taking the [non-relativistic] limit may be found in the time derivatives. We find
$$ \partial_{0}\psi^{\dagger}\partial_{0}\psi = \frac{1}{2m} \left[ \partial_0 \Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi + im \left( \Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi - (\partial_0\Psi^{\dagger})\Psi \right) +m^2\Psi^{\dagger}\Psi \right]. \tag{3}$$ The first term going as $1/m$ is negligible in comparison with the others.
I agree with the equation they derived, however, I don't know why the first term that goes as $(1/m)$ is negligible, because if you expand out the rest of the Lagrangian (this is now my work, not the textbook's,) you get
$$ \mathcal{L} = \frac{m}{2}\Psi^{\dagger}\Psi + \frac{i}{2}\left( \Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi-(\partial^0\Psi^{\dagger})\Psi \right) + \frac{1}{2m}\partial^0\Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi$$$$ - \frac{1}{2m}\nabla\Psi^{\dagger} \cdot \nabla\Psi - \frac{m}{2}\Psi^{\dagger}\Psi - \frac{\lambda}{4m^2}(\Psi^{\dagger}\Psi)^2. \tag{4} $$
Then it is claimed that $\Psi$ and its adjoint may be expanded in plane waves, like
$$ \Psi = \sum a_{\textbf{p}}e^{-ip\cdot x},\tag{5} $$
so $\left( \Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi - \Psi \partial_0\Psi^{\dagger} \right) $ can be replaced with $2\Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi$, which leaves
$$ \mathcal{L} = i\Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi + \frac{1}{2m}\partial^0\Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi - \frac{1}{2m}\nabla\Psi^{\dagger} \cdot \nabla \Psi - \frac{\lambda}{4m^2} (\Psi^{\dagger}{\Psi})^2.\tag{6} $$
The algebra I am fine with, but I say that if you look at the full Lagrangian, not just the time derivative part, both the time derivative and spatial derivative parts go as $1/m$, and even worse, the interaction term goes as $1/m^2$. The book neglected the time derivative part and uses as its final answer
$$ \mathcal{L} = i\Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi - \frac{1}{2m}\nabla\Psi^{\dagger} \cdot \nabla\Psi - \frac{\lambda}{4m^2} \left( \Psi^{\dagger}\Psi \right)^2. \tag{7}$$
Is there a reason why the $\frac{1}{2m}\partial_0\Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi$ time-derivative term is neglected because "it is small compared to the other two terms in the time derivative $(\partial_0\Psi^{\dagger}\partial_0\Psi)$ expression", even though it is $\mathbf{not}$ small compared to the other terms in the Lagrangian (at least, I don't think it is).