The visualization of gravity as shown by this video is pretty good at explaining how massive objects bend space, and such bending causes objects around it to fall towards it (a.k.a: gravity).
However, here's what I do not understand. The reason why the experiment in the video works in the first place, is because real gravity -the one in that room- is acting on the marvels and causing those marvels to bend the sheet. In the real world, there must be a force that causes massive objects to bend space in the first place. What is that force?
To put my question in a simple set of equations:
Experiment: Marvel + Sheet + Real Gravity = Sheet Bending (Fake Gravity).
Real World: Planet + Space + (?) = Space Bending (Real Gravity).
There are other questions about this on StackExchange, but they don't seem to address the missing variable in the equations above.