Is the actual energy of a photon ever measured? How is it done?
I read that a photon is usually identified by diffraction, that means its wavelength is measured, is that right? In this way we determine that a red-light photon makes a full oscillation in roughly $700 nm$Then, by theoretical reasons, we deduce its energy is about $400 THz$. I wonder if, when this relation was established, ther was an instrument capable of precisely counting $4*10^{14}$ oscillations in an exact second.
What I am trying to understand is what exacly is a photon, when we can talk about the existence of a photon. I'll try to explain what is my problem:
we usually receive light (or radio waves) from a continuous source: the Sun, a flame, a bulb etc..., right? how/when can we isolate a single photon? Is a photon the whole set of oscillations during the span of a second? can we consider a photon of red light a single oscillation of the EM field lasting only $\frac{1}{4*10^{14}}$ second, even if no instrument would be able to detect it? Yet, that photo would propagate all the same at $c$ in vacuum for a second or more or forever, but, though its wavelength its still $700 nm$, its energy would probably not be in the region of THz anymore, or would it? To frame it differently, does energy change if the unit of time is halved or doubled?
I hope you can understand my questions even though my exposition is confused.
Edit
The energy of anything is a definite issue, it is the result of a meaurement, and does not depend on theoretical considerations, QM, classical or other models, or onthe fact whether it is a wave or not.
I'll try to clarify my main concern with a concrete example: consider something you can control and manipulate. You can produce low frequency EMR (short radio wave about 10m wavelength) making a charge oscillate up and down 30 million times a second, right?
Now, suppose you make that charge oscillate only for 1/1000 th of a second. all the same That wave will propagate at C and will oscillate 3*10^7 times a second and will be diffracted revealing a wavelength of 10m, is that right or will it oscillate only 30 000 times a second?
Furthermore, whenit hits something or you determine its frequency, will it still have the same energy of a wave that has been produced making a charge oscillate for one whole second or for ten seconds?