Before the existence of magnetometers, people were using compasses. We couldn't measure the magnetic field, but we knew it was there.
From another angle, how do you distinguish one type of mass-energy from another? Viewed purely from the perspective that particles carry a certain amount of mass-energy, without knowing what the mass-energies are, how do you distinguish between them? What determines whether or not the mass-energy is large enough to create a gravitational field?
There is no such defining line. All mass-energy contributes to the stress-energy tensor, which is used to find a set of solutions detailing possible metrics, i.e., the shape of the space in which these particles reside. Gravitational fields are simply manifestations of these shaped, or rather "curved", spaces