What I know:
Wen an inelastic collision takes place the momentum of the two objects before the collision: m1 * v1 + m2 * v2 is equal to the momentum of the objects after the collision: (m1 + m2) * u
But the energy in the system gets a bit lower because some energy gets lost in warmth.
Here comes the question:
If something is warmed up, the particles in it are just getting faster, right? Faster particle means higher momentum, so where does the increase in momentum for the particles in the object warmed up in this case come from? If the momentum came from the colliding objects, the momentum in the system would not stay the same, pretty much like the energy. But it does. This really blows my mind.
Maybe I'm just being dumb but this vector vs scalar think and other mathematical approaches are totally logical to me. The thing I described in the question still blows my mind anyway.
(Sorry for my bad English, I'm a foreign speaker)