I have not seen any complete derivation for the metric in a limited newtonian case:
$$\begin{align} ds^{2} = -(1+2\Phi)dt^{2} +(1-2\Phi)\left(dr^{2} + r^{2}(d\theta^{2} + \sin^{2} \theta\ d\phi^{2})\right). \end{align}$$
I believe that we should begin from cartesian form of the metric and then apply the transformation for spherical coordinates:
$$\begin{align} ds^{2} = -(1+2\Phi)dt^{2} +(1-2\Phi)\delta_{ij}dx^{i}dx^{j} \end{align}$$
In the newtonian limit:
- Particles are moving slowly
- The gravity field is weak
- The field is static
With these conditions, we can perturb the metric linearly:
$$\begin{align} g_{\mu \nu} &= \eta_{\mu \nu} + h_{\mu \nu} \\ g^{\mu \nu} &= \eta^{\mu \nu} - h^{\mu \nu} \end{align}$$ where $\eta_{\nu \mu}$ is some canonical metric (Minkowski then in this case) and $|h_{\mu \nu}| \ll 1$ is a small perturbation.
If we then follow the time component our the geodesic equation:
$$\begin{align} \frac{d^{2}x^{u}}{d\tau^{2}} + \Gamma^{\mu}_{\nu \lambda}\frac{dx^{\nu}}{d\tau}\frac{dx^{\lambda}}{d\tau} = 0 \end{align}$$
and then solve for time and spatial components (while taking the time derivative of a static field):
$$\begin{align} \frac{d^{2}x^{\mu}}{d\tau^{2}} + \Gamma^{\mu}_{00} \left( \frac{dt}{d\tau} \right)^{2} &= 0 \\ \frac{d^{2}x^{\mu}}{d\tau^{2}} &= - \frac{1}{2} \eta^{\mu \lambda}\partial_{\lambda}h_{00} \left( \frac{dt}{d\tau} \right)^{2} \end{align}$$
we see that when $\mu=0$:
$$\begin{align} \frac{dt}{d\tau} = constant \end{align}$$
and when we see that when $\mu=i$:
$$\begin{align} \frac{d^{2}x^{i}}{dt^{2}} &= - \frac{1}{2} \partial_{i} h_{00} \end{align}$$
in which we have $h_{00} = -2 \Phi$, reminiscent of that of the acceleration $\vec{a} = -\nabla \Phi $ where $\Phi$ is the newtonian potential.
Thus $$\begin{align} g_{00} &= - (1+2\Phi). \end{align}$$
Now my problem is trying to solve for the spatial components $g_{ij}$ in a similar fashion.
When trying to work it out, my work starts to look convoluted and messy and I just get lost in translation:
$$\begin{align} \Gamma^{\mu}_{ij}&= \frac{1}{2} g^{\mu \nu} ( \partial_{i}g_{\nu j} + \partial_{j}g_{i \nu} - \partial_{\nu}g_{i j} ). \\ \end{align}$$
Taking $\mu=0$, the whole connection goes to zero. But for a spatial components while implementing the perturbed metric, I get stuck.