I think I am misunderstanding the concept of symmetry in Lagrangian mechanics or maybe I am misunderstanding the content of Noether's theorem. Let me elaborate:
Suppose $L(q,\dot q,t)$ is the Lagrangian of some physical system, then by using the Euler-Lagrange equation you can determine the equation of motion (one equation in this case) of the coordinate $q$. It turns out that $L^´:=L+\frac{d}{dt}f(q,t)$ leads to the exact same equations of motion (for any function $f(q,t)$), so we can consider $L$ and $L^´$ equivalent Lagrangians. Notice however that this only works when $f$ is not dependent on $\dot q$. If $f$ depends on $\dot q$ the Lagrangians might in fact lead to different equations of motion.
Now here is the concept of symmetry that I thought was correct (however I am not sure if this is really correct):
When we do a little infinitesimal coordinate transformation $q \rightarrow q' = q + \epsilon \chi $ then the variation of the Lagrangian (under that transformation) has to be of the following form: $$\delta L = \epsilon \frac{d}{dt} f(q,t)$$
Since $f$ is only depending on $q$ and $t$, we know that the Lagrangian has essentially not changed (leads to the same equations of motion) and is hence symmetric under the coordinate transformation.
But when I looked at the proof of noethers theorem, I found that it is really not necessary for $f$ to not depend on $\dot q$. The condition$$ \delta L = \epsilon \frac{d}{dt} f(q,\dot q ,t)$$
is sufficient for Noether's theorem (in the sense that you will get a conserved quantity).
So what am I missing here? I thought Noether's theorem said that every symmetry implies a conserved quantity and every conserved quantity implies a symmetry. But looking at this, it seems like there are some conserved quantities that are not related to some symmetry. Or am I getting the concept of symmetry wrong?