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How does gravity escape a black hole?
How can gravity get out of a black hole? If a black hole is so powerful that even light does not travel fast enough to get out, and gravity, or rather, gravitational waves, travel at the speed of light, how does gravity get out?
And please don't say that the black hole creates a "well" in space that other masses "slide" down. Such a well would be unstable and, if two black holes pass near each other, neither would be able to "slide" down the other since both are infinitely deep. These wells would make gravity selective.