Wikipedia pegs the mass of Earth at $5.972\cdot 10^{24}\,\text{kg}$ or $5.972\cdot 10^{21}\,\text{metric tons}$.
Assuming Earth accumulates approximately $30,000\,\text{metric tons}$ annually. To illustrate, since man's first known predecessor walked earth about $4.5\cdot 10^6$ years ago, it has gained about $1.35\cdot 10^{11}\,\text{metric tons}$.
Similarly Luna gains a proportional amount of mass too.
Does gain in mass of the participating bodies bring Earth/Luna tidal-lock closer ever faster as the masses increase & time goes by? Can the acceleration (if my assumption is valid) be approximated?
Further, once tidal lock is achieved, if the bodies continue to gain mass are they likely to eventually pull each other apart and coalesce again?