Reading about photons you get all sorts of weird statements like "time is frozen for a photon", "the photon dies the instant it is born" and "the photon is everywhere and nowhere", etc. Probably these should be understood in the given context but for the layman it sounds like mumbo-jumbo.
In order to clear my understanding this leads me to ask for the umpteenth time about the wave/particle duality as follows : Assume we create a single picosecond light pulse, which is emitted in a certain direction towards the moon, propagating at speed $c$. The pulse length in that direction should then be about 300 micrometers. A few seconds later a detector on the moon should see the pulse and show a picosecond spike on a cathode ray screen.
Now my question is threefold:
Is the light pulse equivalent to a picosecond burst of photons?
If so, are the photons (or their probability density) concentrated within the pulse length?
Does the detector on the moon "see" the exact "same" photons as were created in the original bunch or is it impossible to thus individualize the photons?
In summary: I don't like photons but am perfectly happy with Maxwell. So why have them if they weren't necessary in order to fill some gap in the standard model?