Say I have the following setup.
Person A is stationary. Person B is to the very far right of person A and is travelling towards person A in a plane at very high speed but sufficiently far away so that the collision time is some big number. Also say both people are waving at each other frantically (say once per second in local frame time).
From person A's frame, person B's clock became very slow. So, to take as an example, by the time (in A frame) that B passes A, only one tick of person B's clock has gone by. That means we can only see person B waving once.
But from B's POV, the reverse is true, it is person A's clock that has only ticked once. From B's frame, he has waved many many more times.
So what happened to those extra waves that person A cannot see?
Is it because in B's frame, although he waves many many times, only one tick of person A has occured, so person A can only see "one tick worth" of waving?