I'm learning about tensors in the context of special relativity, and I'm a bit confused some notation.
I understand a four-vector is a four dimensional vector, which is written in the form $(ct, x, y, z)$, in the convention I am using. Sometimes, we refer to the contravariant components of the four vector $x^\alpha$. My understanding is sort of off here, though. Sometimes, we write
$x^\alpha = \Lambda_\beta^\alpha x^\beta$.
I don't really understand what this expression means. On the one hand, I think of this as essentially a matrix multiplication equation, where we have that the $\alpha$'th component $x^\alpha$ of a four vector $\textbf{x} = (x^0, x^1, x^2, x^3)$, is given (writing the explicit sum) as $\sum_{\beta = 0}^3\Lambda_\beta^\alpha x^\beta$.
I have also seen it written that $x^\alpha = (ct, x, y, z)$, which confuses me, since I understood $x^\alpha$ to be a component rather than a vector itself. Though, if we understand $x$'s with superscripts to be vectors, then what could $\Lambda_\beta^\alpha x^\beta$ possibly mean? Given that there is an implied summation over $\beta$, it doesn't make sense to me that $x^\beta$ could be a vector, and not just a component.
On the other hand, I've also heard that greek letter superscripts can be thought of as meaning "in this coordinate system", meaning $x^\alpha$ is a four vector -- not just a component -- in a coordinate system labelled $\alpha$, $x^\beta$ is the coordinates of the same vector in a coordinate system labelled $\beta$, and $\Lambda_\alpha^\beta$ actually $\textit{is}$ a matrix, and not just an entry in a matrix.
I have a similar confusion with the Kronecker delta. I always understood that the Kronecker delta is a function $\mathbb{N^2} \to \{0, 1\}$, defined as
$\delta_{ij} = \begin{cases} 1 & i = j \\ 0 & i \neq j \end{cases}$
It seems like with tensors, it's the same thing, apart from we write $\delta_i^j$, for some reason. I understand that superscripts are for contravariant components and subscripts are for covariant components, but I have no idea why this matters for a function which can only be either 0 or 1. Surely, no matter what $i$ and $j$ are, the end result is the same, regardless of how high up the $\delta$ we've chosen to write the indices?
On the same line of some reading, I have read that
$\delta_i^j = \begin{cases} 1 & i = j \\ 0 & i \neq j \end{cases}$ AND that $\delta_i^j$ equals the identity matrix. How can the same symbol mean two things?
I get that the matrix whose (i,j)th entry is $\delta_i^j$ would be the identity matrix, but surely the function $\delta_i^j$ isn't a matrix itself? I just get really confused when the same symbol means a bunch of different things! Also, if $\delta_i^j$ is thought of as a matrix, assuming that its subscript index tells us the column and the superscript index tells us the row, is this not assigning some sort of different contra/co variance between rows and columns?
So in general, I am really confused about all of this notation I've seen. Can anyone help?