The Big Bang is supposed to have happened 13.8 billion years ago.
Question: Given that there is no absolute time and different observers do not agree on the amount of time that has elapsed, how can we say that the Big Bang happened 13.8 billion years ago? Why wouldn't this kind of statement be ambiguous?
For example, say Alice stays on Earth for another billion years. She now measures the Big Bang at an (ostensible) 14.8 billion years ago. Meanwhile Bob goes zipping around the galaxy at 0.99c, and when he returns only 0.1 billion years of time has passed for him. His Big Bang is now 13.9 billion years ago. Both his and Alice's statements of the age of the universe are correct, making any statement about how many years ago the Big Bang happened ambiguous.
I feel like I'm forgetting something obvious here, but I can't place it. What am I missing?