What are the underlying principles for choosing signs for the momentum operators in QM/QFT?
Let's say, for the $(+,-,-,-)$ metric convention we have $\partial^\mu = (+\partial_0,-\nabla)$. Why not $\partial^\mu = (-\partial_0,+\nabla)$? Is it due to the Canonical Commutation Relations $[p^\mu,x^\nu]=ig^{\mu\nu}$?
How then does one decide on the momentum operator components in $(-,+,+,+)$ metric? Should we fix CCR as $[p^\mu,x^\nu]=-ig^{\mu\nu}$ or $[p^\mu,x^\nu]=+ig^{\mu\nu}$?
Is there any cheatsheet (paper/textbook) with sign conventions for momentum operators, EM field tensor, etc?