I'm sorry for my naivety! What is 'now'? How is it different from 'now' that was dt ago, or the 'now' that is dt in the future? That is, what quality might the 'now' possess which the set of all other points does not?
If a point in space-time, then why is it that 'now' appears to a conscious mind to have the special quality of carrying the intense and unfolding moment of causality?
Is 'now' a special case of the set of all points in space-time to consciousness?
Is 'now' the moment of collapse of the wave function? The moment of 'observation' or information passage?
Is it that 'now' can be described by different models (SR, QM, thermodynamics) and that I'm seeking the satisfaction of a anthropic 'now'; really a false question?
Perhaps, I should admit the frame of the question and ask: what is it that, for a human being, gives the experience of life which is only ever contained in the fizzling 'nowness' of a point (or is it the (dt,dx,dy,dz)) in space-time? Why does it appear to move, causally tracing a world line?