I realize that there are some good books about molecular quantum physics recommended here, but now I am looking for a book that tackles the "chemistry" aspect of the molecules more systematically. Here are a few things that I am looking for:
- Orbital symmetry, and how this affects bonding and reaction. Angle between bonds.
- Hybridisation. Calculation of the percentage of $s$ and $p$ character of a hybridised orbital.
- How energy levels of different $3d$ orbitals in a transitional element differ in a complex ion.
To give an example of what I am looking for, here is a paper on this topic: J. P. Foster and F. Weinhold, "Natural hybrid orbitals", J. Am. Chem. Soc. 1980, 102, 24, 7211–7218.
After learning some very theoretical and mathematical quantum mechanics, I am only able to deal with a lot of abstract but simple things, such as harmonic oscillators, potential wells, hydrogen atoms, and possibly helium. I find that despite the large amount of work I have done, I cannot effectively understand papers that are more chemistry-oriented (like the one linked above), which talks about bonds and molecules rather than a single atom. For me, the problem is how to convert theoretical formalism into applications and computational approximations that are useful in physical chemistry. (That paper does not seem to be very hard; it appears that I am just not used to it.)
Could anyone offer some advice on what books I would read?