So, am I supposed to accept the fact the time dilation may not just be a relative effect, as in: it's just as an illusion, but rather, the time that is elapsing for me is actually $\gamma$ times the time, what is elapsing for the other moving person?
If so, won't he feel the same(Since, I will be moving at a speed of $-u$ relative to him)? As in, won't even he feel that he's experiencing time $\gamma t_0$ to be elapsing, and feel that only $t_0$ seconds elapses for me?
So what is 'actually' happening? Because either of them feels that time is running faster for them, compared(aka, relative?) to the other person