In the event you are interested in some methodology or a transparent way on how to solve this problem, here is an analytic approach.
Let the two spheres be $S_1$ and $S_2$ radius $R_1$ and $R_2$ at centres C1 and C2 respectively. The distance $C1C2 =d\ge R_1+R_2$. Work in spherical coordinates with the frame at C1:
1)Consider two point P1$( r_1\cos\phi_1\cos\theta_1, r_1\cos\phi_1\sin\theta_1, r_1\sin\phi_1)$
and P2$( d+ r_2\cos\phi_2\cos\theta_2, r_2\cos\phi_2\sin\theta_2, r_2\sin\phi_2)$ in the volume of $S1$ and $S2$ respectively.
2) Now write the square of the distance P1P2
$r_{12}^2=(d+ r_2\cos\phi_2\cos\theta_2- r_1\cos\phi_1\cos\theta_1)^2+(r_2\cos\phi_2\sin\theta_2-r_1\cos\phi_1\sin\theta_1)^2+ (r_1\sin\phi_1- r_2\sin\phi_2)^2$
3) Write the differential volume elements for the two spheres at the points P1 and P2 in spherical coordinates:
$dV_1=\sqrt {g_1}dr_1d\phi_1d\theta_1$ and $dV_2=\sqrt {g_2}dr_2d\phi_2d\theta_2$
where $g_1$ and $g_2$ are the Jacobian determinants for spherical coordinates (not difficult to find, or look it up in a vector analysis book, or use $dV=r^2\cos\phi drd\phi d\theta$). Hence the differential masses of these volume elements are
$dm_1=\rho_1(r_1)dV_1$ and $dm_2=\rho_2(r_2)dV_2$
Now you can put all these together and write the total magnitude of the force
$F=G\int_{V_1}\int_{V_2}\frac {\rho_1(r_1)\rho_2(r_2)dV_1dV_2}{r_{12}^2}$
and you need to do this integral with the transformations given above.
This is a very general formula giving the total force in the problem. One can see that if $d>>R_1+R_2$ this equation reduces to the gravitational attraction between two point masses at large distance $d$. One could end up with simpler integrals by using the symmetry in the line C1C2, and considering discs instead the general volume elements we have done in the above method
int=Integrate[ 2 Pi r^2 G M \[Rho] Sin[\[Theta]]/(r^2 + x^2 - 2 r Cos[\[Theta]] x), \[Theta]]
(integral),s=FullSimplify[(int /. \[Theta] -> Pi) - (int /. \[Theta] -> 0)]
(from 0 to Pi),Series[s, {r, 0, 4}]
(series expand). – Feb 16 '13 at 01:21int=Integrate[2 Pi r^2 G M \[Rho] Sin[\[Theta]](x-Cos[\[Theta]]r)/(r^2+x^2-2 r Cos[\[Theta]] x)^(3/2),\[Theta]]; s=Simplify[(int/.\[Theta]->Pi)-(int/.\[Theta]->0)];
gives the correct results. (though, the simpler correct argument is by symmetry) – Feb 16 '13 at 03:23