Can one atomic orbital be distinguished from another by its size/volume?
And does this depend on the kind of atom, I mean does it differ from element to element?
Can one atomic orbital be distinguished from another by its size/volume?
And does this depend on the kind of atom, I mean does it differ from element to element?
I'll answer each of your questions one at a time.
1) Atomic orbitals don't really have a 'volume' per se. They are mathematical functions that describe an electron in a hydrogen-like atom (more on that in a second) with a certain energy level and angular momentum. Using this function, you can calculate the probability the electron is found within a specified volume. Let's look at some 2-D representations of some orbitals:
If the electron is more likely to be found in an area, the color is brighter. As you can see, they can be told apart. However, it may be difficult to tell apart certain orbitals, depending on the representation (compare $\psi_{3,2,1}$ and $\psi_{4,3,2}$ in this example). Again, these are not the orbitals; they are representations of where the electron could be found, calculated from the orbitals.
When you see a 3-D representation of an orbital, like you would in a chemistry textbook, you are seeing a surface under which an electron is likely to be found. Look at this, a description of $\psi_{4,3,1}$ (chemistry would call this the 4d orbital) for example:
This surface contains a volume where the electron is 45% likely to be found, but again note that is not the orbital. It is a volume where the electron is decently likely to be found. Good choices of surfaces can also allow one to tell these apart.
2) Orbitals are only properly defined for hydrogen-like atoms, which are atoms with one electron, because those are the only one's we been able to analytically solve so far. However, for all these atoms for which orbitals are defined, you can tell apart good representations of the orbitals, because each is mathematically distinct.