I was trying to understand time dilation, but ended up getting more confused.
Why does it occur.
I saw the Wikipedia visualization here, which explained that a greater distance led to greater time (since 2nd postulate states that velocity is constant)
After seeing this, I had a list of questions:
1. What is so special about the speed of light to make time dilation depend upon it?
2. Why does time dilation even occur?
For question 2, I thought of a counter-case, which I have described below:
Consider a projectile horizontally launched at some vertical height. Now, consider another identical projectile dropped from the same height. Simple Kinematics tells us that the time of the projectiles in the air will be the same.
In this scenario, the projectile horizontally launched traveled a greater distance when compared the ball dropped (similar to the Wikipedia image). The time it took was identical. But the analogous time dilation example shown by Wikipedia suggests otherwise.
I would really appreciate it if you could help me sort out this dilemna with question 2 especially (tell me where my thinking is off), and also explain the answer to question 1.