In page 296 and 297 of Kleppner and Kolenkow, The author goes over an example of a massless tilted rod rotating about the z-axis as shown in the figure having two point masses at each end:
Details: The perpendicular to rod's length makes an angle of $\alpha $ with the z-axis
Labelled diagram:
The author writes the $w_{\parallel}$ doesn't contribute to angular momentum because the particles are of small size. This makes sense but he derived the angular momentum in another way by using the cross product of position vector and linear momentum. I have shown the method below:
$$ L = \sum r_i \times p_i= 2 \omega m l^2 \cos \alpha$$
The first method is said to emphasize the vector nature and the second was the regular way of following linear momentum definition. How did the regular method arrive at the same conclusion without the assumption of small particles? Or is the small particle somehow inbuilt into the cross product definition method?
The book is called an Introduction to Classical Mechanics by Kleppner and Kolenkow