I understand how time (space/time) is perceived according to the theories of relativity, but I still don’t understand:
Did the Big Bang occur 13.8 billion years ago or is it occurring relative to us 13.8 billion years ago?
Is the day I was born occurring x years ago relative to me or did it occur x years ago?
Is the day I die occurring x years from now, or will it occur only in x years from now?
When using the word relative in my examples, I am not necessarily meaning it in the sense of special relativity.