There has been quite some debate amongst users with different backgrounds about the usage of the word photon.[1, 2] The most apparent disagreement was on whether a photon has a wavelength. I don't want to start a discussion about which viewpoint is more correct, because quantum optics is clearly only a sub-field of the standard model. Instead I would like to understand what additional predictions about photons the standard model allows to make and how one can construct the properties of the quantum optics' photon from it.
In the quantum optics community a photon is a quantum of excitation of an electromagnetic (EM) mode. The mode is a solution of (the relativistic) Maxwell's equations. Therefore asking about the wavelength of a photon boils down to the wavelength of the EM mode. The mode doesn't need to be a plane wave.
Now the particle physics perspective – I don't know much about it, but there were some statements which confused me: Photons are point particles without a wavelength. Moreover, the entity quantum optics people term "photon" is a composite particle or quasiparticle.
I especially wonder how the absence of a wavelength does not contradict the explanation of diffraction experiments. The diffraction of a quantum optics' photon follows quite naturally from the fact that the EM mode is different in the presence of e.g. a grating compared to without the grating. But how are the wave-like properties modelled in particle physics?
Please note that I'm not asking about the wave-particle duality, but about the apparent contradiction of the mentioned statements with interference phenomena.