Here is another way to look at this which might be helpful.
For objects small enough that quantum mechanical effects cannot be ignored, material particles begin exhibiting wavelike properties. Whether we detect their material aspect or their wavelike aspect then starts to depend on the physical details of the detection apparatus we are using.
This is because to detect the location or momentum of one of these tiny things, we have to physically perturb it in some manner which unavoidably affects its behavior. It is as if trying to measure the location of a thrown baseball causes its velocity to change; similarly, if we try to measure the speed of that ball, its location is changed.
For objects the size of a baseball, those sort of effects are so small that it is impossible to detect them, but for objects like electrons, those effects are dominant.
In this connection, trying to measure the momentum of an electron alters its position and the more precisely we make that momentum measurement, the less certain we can be of its exact position. That "smeared-out" aspect of its position makes it seem as though the electron has stopped behaving like a point particle and is starting to act like a wave instead.