I can share with you what my volume of Merzbacher, 2nd Ed., says on this topic, and this, in turn, may become part of an answer that ultimately satisfies you as you piece this together from what others have to say as well. We know Hamilton's equations from classical mechanics: $$\dot q_k=\frac{\partial H}{\partial p_k}$$ and $$\dot p_k=-\frac{\partial H}{\partial q_k}$$
In chapter 15, Quantum Dynamics, Merzbacher derives the time rate of change of an operator: $$i\hbar\frac{d\langle A \rangle }{dt}= \langle AH-HA\rangle$$ or $$\frac{d\langle A\rangle}{dt}= \frac {\langle AH-HA\rangle}{i\hbar}$$ He then proceeds to apply this to a system of a mass point particle. He states: "If a quantum system has a classical analog, expectation values of operators behave, in the limit $\hbar \rightarrow0$, like the corresponding classical quantities."
Thus if the operator A above is x (position) or p (momentum), the quantum expression must reduce to the appropriate Hamilton equation above in the limit that $\hbar \rightarrow 0$.
He then writes:
All these conditions can be satisfied if we do the following:
(1) Let H be a Hermitian operator identical in form with $H_c$ [the
classical Hamiltonian], but replacing all coordinates and momenta by
their corresponding operators.
(2) Postulate the fundamental commutation relations between the
Hermitian operators representing coordinates and momenta.
He then proceeds to show that for any two general functions of the coordinates and momenta, F and G, the expression on the RHS of the last equation above is just the Poisson bracket of these two functions from classical mechanics, {F,G} (Note: the quantum expression will have an $\hbar$ factor in it that must be taken to 0 as the correspondence principle requires to complete the equality between the two expressions).
Finally, to come full circle he writes:
In order to test the quantization procedure just outlined, we must show that the quantum mechanics obtained from it are identical with the equations of wave mechanics which we know to give an accurate description of many physical phenomena.
From the title he gives the section, Wave Mechanics Regained, you won't be surprised to learn that he rederives the Schrodinger equation.
As I say, I am just regurgitating what I knew to exist in Merzbacher's QM book. I hope it contains some piece of the puzzle you are trying to put together!