Excuse my noobishness here, but I'm trying to understand the double slit experiment exactly. The way I understand it is the weirdness lies in the fact that when you send single photons through a double slit, one at a time, that it over time results in the same diffraction pattern you would expect when sending multiple photons through. Classically we wouldn't think of light as photons but as waves.
But anyway, it seems that the "strangeness" of light acting both as a wave and a particle depends largely on whether or not we actually ARE sending a single photon through the double slit apparatus at a time. Otherwise, if multiple photons are being sent through the double slit, they will interfere with each other and we have a completely rational explanation for the interference pattern.
So, given that what i've said above is true, which I may not be and need to be corrected on, from the apparatuses and experiments I have seen, I'm not completely convinced that they are indeed only sending one photon "at a time". Heres one such resource
https://www.animations.physics.unsw.edu.au/jw/light/youngs-experiment-single-photons.html
it seems that they are trying to basically run the power very low and also filter it through a filter and a single slit, and assume that that will result in one photon being emitted at a time. But that does not seem like a guarantee in this situation. Maybe 2 could be released from the lamp at a time? How do we know exactly?
Perhaps there's some semantic issues in the way this problem is traditionally explained to laymen and its leaving out some details that would clarify this. Either way, would love some input on this. Thanks!