It is not stupid question at all.
As @Wolphramjonny said, in Newton law's we say that force is equal acceleration times mass. Mass is assumed to be scalar, i.e. just a number that characterizes how much resistance body has against an acceleration. Acceleration is vector, and it needs to be one due to geometric considerations.
If we define force as $$\vec{F}=m\vec{a},$$ it indeed needs to be a vector. In this sense it is trivial fact that has no deeper, physical meaning.
But force is not actually defined by the law $\vec{F}=m\vec{a}.$ Force is defined by other means, it characterizes interactions between bodies. The law $\vec{F}=m\vec{a}$ tells us how to use the force if we have it or helps us to find it if we don't. But the true law that defines force comes from interactions. One example is gravitational law:
$$\vec{F}=-G\frac{mM}{r^3}\vec{r}$$
The implicit claim is, that interactions between bodies is well described by vectorial quantities. This is pretty nontrivial statement. It tells us for example, that if we have two massive bodies that interact gravitationally with the third, the resulting force is the vectorial sum of both forces. Or in other words the two forces are independent and are not influencing each other and they have equal "vote" in how the body they act on will move.
This is not true in general. In stronger gravitational fields, the forces become coupled and we can no longer compute force on a body by simply adding the constituent parts.
We have two choices to tackle this. One is to keep insisting that force is supposed to be vectorial quantity. Then the force law would become complicated expression. We would no longer be able to write gravitational law as simple interaction between two bodies, but we would need to include the coupling between the bodies. Or we can stop claiming force as a vectorial quantity is a good way to describe gravitation and we start seeking another theory. This is the path Einstein took, when he started seeking General Relativity. But since force and its equation $\vec{F}=m\vec{a}$ was (and still is) a useful concept in many scenarios, he did not confuse his peers and students by redefining the word force, instead he simply stopped using it.
The similar thing happened in electromagnetism. We stopped using force as a good description of electromagnetic interactions, because there the force is coupled with the past (it takes time for the information to reach your charged particle) and instead we started using fields for describing the nature.
We can always write force as a vectorial quantity, but this might not always be the best idea if the interaction is strongly coupled. But if the coupling is weak, then it is a good idea. The fact, that force has such a prominence in mechanics is due to the fact, that most researches back in the day were doing research with gravity and forces that are indeed weakly coupled. In fact, it was the explanation of planetary movements that triggered scientific revolution. And gravity in our solar system is weakly coupled, the resulting effect of gravitational interaction on planets and asteroids is indeed a simple sum of effects of individual planets (or Sun).
PS
I am using the word "force" in two different meanings. Sometimes I mean the force as quantity that obeys $\vec{F}=m\vec{a}$ and sometimes I use it more generally as quantity that describes interaction between two bodies. I do not have time right now, but if it is confusing, let me know and I will try to reformulate my answer later.