I'm having a difficult time making the connection between the Newtonian conception of mass and that proposed by special relativity and particle physics. From a Newtonian perspective, mass is that which resists acceleration. If an experimenter were to slide a book across a table, they could measure the required force the book has due to its mass. We will ignore friction here.
From the perspective of special relativity mass can be thought of as $m=E/c^2$, meaning most of the mass of protons and neutrons are due to the binding energy of the quarks.
From the perspective of particle physics and special relativity, where does the resistive force one experiences while sliding a book across a table come from?