The wave/particle duality is a duality that needs an accumulation of measurements with the same boundary conditions to be manifested experimentally.
The particle definition is extended from the classical mechanics , there is a specific (x,y,z,t) describing the particle. The wave part comes from the quantum mechanical wave function that predicts the probability to find the particle at (x,y,z,t) .
This double slit experiment referred here with electrons one at a time can give an intuition :

Each electron leaves a particle-like footprint on the screen, an (x,y) dot, seemingly random. It is the accumulation that gives the wave interference.
f we can make the entangled particle a wave or not, how come we can't, with enough particles, make a binary code of wave/particle/wave wave/particle to send messages?
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Because you cannot control where the electron will end up on the screen, it is controlled by a probability function. So even in this simple set up, a message cannot be encoded, Messages need direct control.