I understand that at freezing and condensation points, potential energy of molecules are given off to form intermolecular bonds while the kinetic energy of the molecule stays constant.
My question is, why is this so? Why can't kinetic & potential energy be lost concurrently? It seems reasonable for, say, half of the molecules to lose their kinetic energy while the other half lose their potential energy. What is so special about these intermolecular bonds?
Is the "intermolecular bonds formed" just stronger intermolecular electrostatic forces of attraction? If so, then wouldn't it make more sense to for these bond strengths to be continuously increasing instead of only increase at 2 distinct points (freezing and condensation points)?
P.S. I have chosen to ask this question from a cooling perspective because, even though it is symmetrical to heating perspective, the argument here is generally more hand-wavy.