Let us have the familiar Lorentz transformations, given by :
$$\Delta t_{s'}=\gamma\left(\Delta t_s-\frac{v\Delta x_s}{c^2}\right)$$ $$\Delta t_{s}=\gamma\left(\Delta t_{s'}+\frac{v\Delta x_{s'}}{c^2}\right)$$
I want to derive the concept of time dilation from here. My problem is, different sources do it differently. For example, what books like Griffiths, or Dr. Brian Greene's lecture on youtube does, is state the following :
We are looking at a clock in motion. Let $S$ be our frame at rest, and $S'$ be the frame of the moving clock. The clock is at rest in it's own moving frame, and so $\Delta x_{s'}=0$. Plugging this into the second equation, we have :
$$\Delta t_s=\gamma \Delta t_{s'}$$
This clearly shows that time elapsed on our stationary clock between any two events is more than the time elapsed on the moving clock. This shows that the moving clock is running slow, from our perspective.
However, other books like Kleppner and even the Wikipedia article does this slightly differently :
The state $\Delta x_s=0$, and use the first relation to show :
$$\Delta t_{s'}=\gamma\Delta t_s$$
This is exactly opposite of what predicted by our first relation. Hence I'm inclined to believe that this new relation doesn't relate the time elapsed on the moving watch and the watch at rest. Instead it relates something else, like the time period of the moving watch against that of the watch in rest. Since, the moving watch runs slow, it should take a longer time in the perspective of the watch at rest to complete one second, or one full turn.
My question is, how does setting $\Delta x_{s'}$ or $\Delta x_s$ to be equal to $0$, change our interpretation of what $\Delta t_s$ and $\Delta t_{s'}$ actually represent. In the first case, they represent the elapsed time on each clock, but in the second case, they are measuring the time period of each clock ? How and why does the interpretation of these terms suddenly change ?
The second confusion is, when we say a moving clock runs slower, what we actually mean is that, when 'we the observer at rest' looks at a moving clock, it seems to tick slowly compared to the watch which is at rest with us. Suppose, when our clock ticks $5$ times, the clock in motion ticks once, between two events $A$ and $B$. But now suppose, someone else is moving with the clock in motion. That person encounters the same two events. However, he is at rest with respect to the moving clock. How many ticks of the clock would he record?
The answer is supposed to be $1$ tick since the moving clock is ticking slower. But this is something that I'm having difficulty wrapping my head around. The moving clock ticks once, between $A$ and $B$, when we at rest are looking at it. Why will it also tick once, for someone moving along with the clock, and looking at it ? Is this because, according to the moving observer, the distance between the two events has been length contracted ?