My (gifted 8-year-old) son is fascinated by the standard model. We've exhausted my knowledge: he can describe the particles, some of their properties, and understands that quarks make up baryons and mesons. I'd love to provide some better answer to questions like "why are there three lepton flavours?" "why are there three types of colour charge?" and "why do quarks have fractional charge" other than "because group theory".
He has a grasp of what a group is, and it might be interesting to look at $SU(3)$, $SU(2)$ and $U(1)$. But I can't explain the connection between the groups and the particles. All of the resources I've found are either just a list of particles with more or less fancy graphics; or start with tensors and Lie algebras and go from there. Is there any non-mathematical treatment out there which gives an intuition - however metaphorical - for how you get from understandable symmetries to a list of particles?
Edit: thank you for the answers so far. They have helped me understand what I am looking for (rather than a ToE explainable to an 8-year-old!) I think what puzzles us both is this. Imagine we had observed 5 out of the 6 quarks. What is it about the maths that suggests "the way these quarks interact is related to $SU(3)$" and "therefore we might expect there to be a 6th one"?