Based on the Wikipedia article for special relativity:
It shows how light is red or blue shifted based on whether the observer is moving or the source is moving.
I'm having a hard time understanding how this doesn't contradict relative motion. We can determine relative motion (toward or away from us) using spectral analysis of stars. But in this case, we can only say there is motion between us, not which one is 'actually' moving. But in transverse Doppler it appears that we can determine who is moving, us or the star.
What am I missing?