The OP in the link is making erroneous statements, such as "Since the the surroundings remain at constant pressure". For an isothermal expansion it is the temperature of the surroundings that is constant. Now, getting to your questions.
Why does the OP say that the change in entropy of the surrounding is
negative of the change of entropy of the system.
The OP is referring to a reversible isothermal expansion where the surroundings is a thermal reservoir. For a reversible process the total change in entropy (system + surroundings) is zero. Therefore the change in entropy of the surroundings has to be the negative of the change in entropy of the system.
...but it has to be divided by the temperature of the surrounding ,not
the temperature of the system !
For a reversible isothermal expansion, the temperature of the surroundings is considered the same as the temperature of the system, since the difference is infinitesimal.
Hope this helps.