Say that an operator is given by $$D(\alpha) = \exp(\alpha a^{\dagger} - \alpha^{*}a) = \sum_{n=0} ^ {\infty} (n!)^{-1}(\alpha a^{\dagger} - \alpha^{*}a)^n.$$
Define $\{(a^{\dagger})^m a^n\}$ as the average of the ${n+m \choose m} = {n+m \choose n}$ differently ordered terms.
For example, $$\{a^{\dagger}a^2\} = \frac{a^{\dagger}a^2 + a a^{\dagger} a + a^2 a^{\dagger}}{3}.$$
How do I express $D(\alpha)$ in a neat, symmetric form (where $a$ and $a^{\dagger}$ are on equal footing)? For example $$D(\alpha) = \sum_{n, m=0} ^ \infty \frac{\alpha^n(-\alpha^*) ^{m}}{n!m!} \{(a^{\dagger})^n a^m\}.$$
I am not sure how to do a binomial expansion of the first equation. There are posts which explain how to do it, for example here, but I am not sure how to use on of the answers to proceed.