In order to determine the potential difference between the two ends of the rod you need to know the resistance $R$ of the rod and the current $I$ in the rod. To determine $R$ you need the electrical resistivity $\rho$ of the metal, length and cross sectional area of the rod. Then apply Ohm's law $V=IR$. The mass of the rod is irrelevant. So
$$R=\rho\frac{L}{A}$$
$$V=IR=\rho \frac{IL}{A}$$
What you are attempting to do ends up as circular reasoning. The potential difference $V$ between the ends of the rod is the work $W$ required per unit charge $Q$ to move the charge a distance $d$, or
$$V=\frac{W}{Q}=\frac{Fd}{Q}\tag{1}$$
The magnitude of the force on the charge equals the product of the charge and the magnitude of the electric field $E$ in the rod, or
$$F=QE\tag{2}$$
Substituting (2) into (1)
$$V=\frac{QEd}{Q}=Ed\tag{3}$$
The electric field is the voltage gradient in the rod, assumed uniform, or
$$E=\frac{V}{d}\tag{4}$$
Substituting (4) into (3)
$$V=\frac{V}{d}d=V\tag{5}$$
Which provides no information on the potential difference between the ends of the rod based on the rods physical and electrical characteristics.
Hope this helps.