I apologize in advance for my severe lack of understanding regarding this topic. Here goes nothing:
My understanding of Einsteins first postulate is that every inertial reference frame is equal. If I'm on a moving train, I should be able to do all the necessary math as if the train were still and the train station moving in the opposite direction.
With this in the back of my mind, I started to consider one of the classic examples of special relativity (at least as far as my education is concerned). If one person gets on a train that is moving close to the speed of light, he will age slower and thereby, by the time the train stops and both people meet each other, be younger than someone who is simply standing still (assuming of course that both started with the same age).
Now apply the aforementioned postulate to the situation. Considering not the train as moving, but the train station as moving, someone inside the train would expect that the people outside, since they are now moving relative to his reference frame, would age slower and thereby be younger than him when both people meet.
If this happens to two people (again, with the same age initially), after they meet again, who would be older? For one person, the other should be younger, but for the other person, the opposite should be true. Which reality is the real one?