The field equations are non-linear, that can be interpreted as gravity is coupling with itself, see for example here:
Non-linearity and self-coupling of gravity
I'm trying to understand what that means. What is self-coupling? Does that really mean that gravity gravitates? That the graviton (if it exists) underlies gravity as all other particles?
And, finally, could the fact that gravity can "escape" a black hole lead to the conclusion that the graviton would not interact with gravity? But then, going back to the entrance question, would that lead to the conclusion that gravity is not non-linear? Would it be linear then? Could one infer from that that gravitational fields just add up as a superposition? Is there probably a mistake in that reasoning?
Black holes have five "hairs": mass-energy, momentum, angular momentum, position and electric charge. Due to their mass-energy and their position, they interact with their surroundings through the gravitational field = the curvature of spacetime.
I'm really confused about the meaning of "gravity gravitates". If there were a graviton-particle, wouldn't it move at the speed of light (or below)? And shouldn't it then be blocked by the horizon? Therefore, there shouldn't be a graviton-particle, should it? The gravitation of the BH is simply engraved in the surrounding (infinite) spacetime, isn't it? However, then, how can one interpret the "gravity gravitates" = "EFE are nonlinear"- part of general relativity?
Related to this question is that question: How does gravity escape a black hole? There, the question is, how gravity can escape a black hole. One of the answers is, in short, that nothing moves out the black hole, the surrounding spacetime curvature is the gravitational field which is influenced by the bh but simply is there, and doesn't have to move. (and "it's easier to think about the question in purely classical terms (avoiding any mention of photons or gravitons)")
In contrast, MY question is: isn't the fact that gravity "escapes" a black hole a hint that gravity doesn't gravitate?