This video on The True Cause of Gravity in General Relativity states that all other videos claiming that time dilation is the cause of gravity are "100% PERCENT UNEQUIVOCALLY COMPLETELY WRONG" (his capitalization.) Then at 22:25 he gives "the true cause of gravity" as the fact that every portion of a mass is accelerating outwards but spacetime curvature steps in to ensure the spacetime manifold compensates in just the right way and thus produces a stable configuration.
This seems to go against much of what is discussed here, including here. Can a GR expert make a comment on this theory?