I've been trying to translate the idea of Time Dilation into something a little more palatable to understand to the lay-person. The light-clock idea is plain and simple and makes sense to me (though as a little side question I'm still not sure whether it's suggesting that the registration of the events - or light itself - is what defines time in that example, beyond light's usage as a clock specifically).
But I still don't understand how this alters the experience (edit: physical experience*) of the individual. The light-clock example, as I interpret it, is more how to an observer, someone else's time can appear to run differently, but I don't understand how that person's time actually runs differently.
I was reading Arthur Eddington's Book The Nature of the Physical World, and as far as I interpret it, he explained that as an object moves closer to the speed of light, it has more energy, and thus gains more mass. And I believe he was suggesting that the increased mass meant that the object required even more energy to move itself faster, including the constituent atoms that form its bodily processes.
So do the atoms, thoughts, and/or bodily functions of a person travelling ever-nearer the speed of light physically slow down relative to their speeds at "rest" on earth as their masses increase in response to their increased speeds?
I'm not at all scientifically literate, mathematically or otherwise, but I feel like there must be some simple common-sense way to understand it, thank you for your help in advance!
(EDIT: I apologise for the bombardment of follow up questions, I'm just really curious about it and I find most answers to the question somewhat circular i.e. Why does time slow down? "Because time slows down." in some form - which seems to permeate itself pretty consistently into popular explanations)