We don't observe particles, at least not in the sense of the physical definition of a particle (as the physical approximation of the motion of an extended classical body by the motion of its center of mass) or corpuscle (tiny pieces of matter).
What we are observing are quanta. Quanta are combinations of energy, momentum, angular momentum and charges (electric charges, lepton number etc.). These quanta are being irreversibly exchanged between quantum fields and external systems, like the detectors at CERN, for instance.
Quanta are not computational tools. They are the actual physical quantities that we are measuring in detectors and they differ in nothing from the classical energy, momentum, angular momentum and charge concepts.
What trips up many students and laypeople is the fact that quanta are properties and not objects. The "particle" nomenclature is one of the more unfortunate ones in physics. It suggests that quantum fields are made up of atomistic elements. That is not so. A general quantum field state does not have a fixed number of quanta that exist independently of emission and absorption processes. The quanta we emit into a quantum field are in general also not the same as those that we absorb from the quantum field. Both of those simplifications exist only in the most trivial scenarios. In reality what we "emit" and "absorb" depends on the physical properties of the emitter and absorber and the physical interactions in the "free field", just like in non-relativistic quantum mechanics where we have to specify the initial state (and by that the properties of the system that does the "preparation" of the quantum state), the free dynamics and the measurement system (i.e. the specific type of absorber). Only if we have all three components defined do we have a description of a realistic physical system.