It helps to remember that the separation between quantum and classical theories are just the different ways we model nature. Nature out there doesn't care about our theories. It is the same nature that produces all the phenomena that we observe.
So, if we talk about a photon or about a classical optical beam, physically they represent the same thing. If our equations of motion work for one, it should also work for the other.
The thing that makes a difference is the interactions. We can basically add interactions to our classical theories and end up with quantum theories. When we take the quantum theory and make the interaction strength zero, we get back the classical theory. The quantization property is introduced by the properties of interactions.
In quantum physics, we often study quantum states, which are supposed to be different from classical states. However, if you look carefully, you'll see that the difference comes from consequences of interactions. It is the methods we use to prepare such states that make them different. For example, entanglement is a consequence of the interactions that are involved in the preparation process of such states.
Hope this helps. It is not an easy question to answer, but I hope that this understanding can give an idea of how to see the difference.
To respond to the comments "... free theories have quantum effects." No they don't.
Double slit interference: linear process. The process itself is not a quantum process. The same interference happens with classical light. The quantum aspect comes in with the observation of single photons/electrons at the screen. This happens because the observation requires an interaction with the screen.
Bell's inequality: it is an entanglement witness. As I explained, entanglement is a property that is obtained by the state preparation process which requires interactions.
Uncertainty principle: fundamentally a result of Fourier analysis which does not have anything to do with quantum mechanics per se. Quantum mechanics inherits the uncertainty principle due to the link between momentum and the wave vector which comes from the quantization associated with interactions.
In particle physics, it is generally accepted that a free-field theory (i.e., a theory without interactions) is equivalent to a classical theory.
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