My professor when talking about the EPR paradox said that the singlet spin state,
$$ |00\rangle=\frac{1}{\sqrt 2}(|+-\rangle-|-+\rangle) $$
is symmetric under rotation because its density matrix is
$$\rho=\frac{1}{4}(1-\vec{\sigma_1}\cdot\vec{\sigma_2}),$$
where $\vec{\sigma_1}$ and $\vec{\sigma_2}$ are the Pauli matrices for the first and second particle.
This is because for example a rotation around the $y$ axis that sends $\vec{e_z}$ to $\vec{e_x}$ and $\vec{e_x}$ to $-\vec{e_z}$, sends ${\sigma_i^z}$ to ${\sigma_i^x}$ and ${\sigma_i^x}$ to $-{\sigma_i^z}$ and so leaves $\rho$ unchanged.
But my professor said that $\rho$ for the state
$$ |10\rangle=\frac{1}{\sqrt 2}(|+-\rangle+|-+\rangle) $$
is
$$\rho=\frac{1}{2}(1+\vec{\sigma_1}\cdot\vec{\sigma_2}).$$
So also this state should be symmetric under rotations because there is a scalar product.
But this state isn't symmetric because, while the uncertainty of total spin third component $S^z$ is $0$ (the states is an eigenstate), the uncertainties of $S_x$ and $S_y$ are not $0$. This for example follows from the fact that $\langle S_x \rangle=\langle S_y \rangle=0$ and $\langle S_x^2 \rangle+\langle S_y^2 \rangle=\langle S^2 \rangle = 2\hbar$.
How to solve this contraddiction?
EDIT:
I think I figured out what happened: the $\rho$ matrix for $|10\rangle$ state can't be the one in the OP as shown in this calculation:
$$\vec{\sigma_1}\cdot\vec{\sigma_2}= \frac{1}{2}[(\vec{\sigma_1}^2+\vec{\sigma_1})^2-\vec{\sigma_1}^2-\vec{\sigma_2}^2]= \frac{1}{2}(\frac{2}{\hbar})^2 S_{tot}^2-3 = \frac{2}{\hbar^2}S_{tot}^2-3$$
$$\rho=\frac{1}{\hbar^2}S_{tot}^2-1$$
$$\rho|10\rangle=|10\rangle$$ $$\rho|11\rangle=|11\rangle$$ $$\rho|1-1\rangle=|1-1\rangle$$
So $\rho$ can't be the projector onto the $|10\rangle$ state. Can someone give me a confirmation about this?