This is based on a question by someone else on this site: Combining metric tensors/curvature tensors
They asked:
Consider a particle which causes a metric $g_{\mu\nu}$ on an otherwise Minkowski spacetime (or any manifold). Now, consider another particle, somewhere in the vicinity of the first particle, which causes a metric $h_{\mu\nu}$ on a spacetime which would have been Minkowski if not for these two particles.
Then, what would the metric in the vicinity of these two points be?
The answers given either stated that the metrics can't be added because GR is a non-linear theory, or that solutions for two particles can be found by solving the Einstein Field Equations, the latter strikes me as a bit odd.
Shouldn't there be a mathematical method for combining two spacetimes, or more generally two manifolds, that does not involve solving the Field Equations but rather relies on pure geometric arguments? How will that method depend on the type of geometry (for example, Riemannian geometry) of the manifolds?
I've tried to search throughout the internet and could barely find anything, some seemingly related topics I managed to find were the gluing construction and the pull-back/push-forward of manifolds.
Any further clarification on this subject or references to helpful sources would be greatly appreciated!
(EDIT) The Einstein Field Equations describe the relationship between spacetime curvature and matter, I don't see why this relationship should dictate how two spacetimes are to be combined.