This is a very simplistic view from an interested structural design engineer (retired).
Mass curves space. Taking the case of a sphere of uniform density the point at which you have as much mass outside as inside is a spherical shell two thirds the radius of the sphere. Therefore, once you pass through that shell closer to the center should not the curvature of space reduce rather than increase since most of the mass is outside? If so a singularity at the center could not occur. The maximum curvature of space would be a 2D spherical shell not a singularity. Clearly a black hole may not be a uniform density, but even if it increased exponentially, the point at which there would be as much mass outside as inside would still be a 2D shell of some radius. Why is this not the case please.